Two Reasons You Shouldn't Micromanage Your Child's Education

by Sara Vazquez Shaw

Most people appreciate the freedom to make their own choices. Allowing your child to have some say in his/her schooling will be beneficial in the long and short term. This freedom will prepare your child for a lifetime of wise decision making.

1. Your child wants to feel autonomous

Letting your child call some of the shots will help instill a sense of control and confidence. For a long time, your child has been living by your rules. Now is the moment to loosen the reins and let him/her make a few decisions. Start by letting your child determine his/her educational path. It's not that you can't help along the way, but see where you can let go in the control department and give that control over to your child. By letting them call the shots early on, they will not only feel good, but they will improve their own decision making skills. Your child will be happy and respect you for that trust to make smart decisions. They might make a few mistakes on the way, but that's all part of the learning process. Confidence is one of the best gifts you can give your child.

2. Your preferences are different from your child's

Your child is a different person from you. You might have contrasting views about life and social issues. You might also have dramatically different interests. Let your child choose what to do academically and which areas to explore. Talk with your child and listen to his/her opinions. While you might want to have some say in the matter, maybe you can reach a compromise that makes both of you happy.

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